Being Grateful Makes You Full of Greatness…

Thanksgiving week always brings about talk of what we’re thankful for in our lives.

Of course there are the basic answers like family, friends, food, a place to live, indoor toilets and any opportunity to eat massive amounts of pizza from NY.

The other day, as I tried to go beyond my usual list of things I’m grateful for, my thoughts turned into a question…

What are the results of being grateful vs. the results of being ungrateful? What are the different “side effects” or manifestations that occur on a physical, emotional and a cognitive level?

To clarify, when I say “ungrateful” I mean active complaining or ingratitude — in other words being negative.

“What you are thinking about, you are becoming.”
                                                 – Muhammad Ali

When we’re being ungrateful, we’re keeping in mind something that we’re not happy about  something negative, unwanted, bothersome or just plain annoying.

In this state of being, we get stuck in the mucky-muck of negativity. We use our energy dwelling on something we’re unhappy about instead of using that same energy to find solutions. And in doing so we help solidify what we’d really like to change.

When we’re grateful, the outcome is very different. We’re being positive, freeing up & refreshing our energy to move forward instead of holding ourselves back. Sure, there may be things we’re not happy about, but when we’re focusing on something positive, we’re letting go of being negative about something else.

I’m not saying to pretend to be grateful for something that just plain sucks. But why not think about something that doesn’t suck? Why not make a plan to make that particular issue less sucky, instead of just dwelling on it? Are humans so driven to misery that we can’t do this simple thing?

Muhammad Ali said it so beautifully. What we think leads to what we speak. What we speak leads to how we act, and in turn the reality we create.

There was a time when I was so unhappy with my job that I became physically ill and almost died. I was so ungrateful for everything good in my life that my personality became very negative, my soul spiritless. And in turn my body started failing me (I had Crohn’s Disease).

Getting sick turned out to be one the greatest gifts of my life. It woke me up (which was my body’s intention in the first place) and empowered me to make the changes I needed to make.

Although I am aware of the benefits of being grateful, that doesn’t mean I always am. It’s a constant battle to remain mindful about my thoughts (no pun intended).

I’d like to leave off with a question:

Can you allow yourself to be greatness? I’m not talking about ego here, but the greatness that comes with being grateful, positive and true to who you really are.

Anything is possible. The simple choice of being grateful just might change your life.

And remember, you are not alone…

Related links:
The Road to Nowhere: It’s Not Too Late to Recreate Your Reality
The Magic Quarter: Creating Your Own Reality
Anything is Possible
Out of Energy. Out of Time. Out of Luck?
Can You Let Go of the Need for Control? The Sedona Method, Part 3

6 Replies to “Being Grateful Makes You Full of Greatness…”

  1. Hey Babbo,

    I really enjoyed this post, took some time to think about what I’ve been ‘thinking about and becoming.”
    On a side note, I wanted to follow up to see if you had gotten a chance to look at the information I had posted regarding JumpStart 3D virtual world and it’s line of video games for children. Let me know if this is something you are interested in reviewing for your site this holiday season. I would be more than happy to send you a copy of one of Knowledge Adventure’s popular titles.


  2. @ Clif: Yes indeed, I am from the future – six whole hours into the future! Uh, actually I had my WordPress time set wrong and never bothered to fix it. Alas, now it is fixed…I think.

    @ Graham: Sure, I’ll send you my info. I’d be happy to take a look.

  3. OMG! I am so grateful for your post…for it allowing me to remember this precious moment in history.

    It was August of 2004. I had just found out that it was most certain the cancer had returned to my 11 year old daughter’s brain. I shared the news with her. We were supposed to go to a gathering that night. I did NOT want to go. Through my tears, I asked her if she wanted to go, or just stay home.

    I had just told the child what amounted to a death sentence for peets sake! And yes, she “got it.” She had been battling this for many, many years, so she understood the ramifications. She looked at me and said “Mommy, if we stay home, we will just sit and cry. Now, lets get our things and go to the party and have some fun!”

    I don’t think an attitude could get much more positive than that…..and we continued to have as much fun as we could for the next three months, until she took her last breath in our home.

  4. @ Wendy: Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve been speechless for the last 5 minutes, in awe of your daughter’s ability to remain so positive.

    I am honored that you shared, and inspired by your strength. You may feel broken, but looking at your blog, you are certainly remaining strong.

    Thank you.

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