It’s been almost two years since Daddy Brain posted its first article.
Way back when, one of my goals was to write blog posts about spirituality. But the only one that resembles a spiritual post has the word schmuck in the title, so I’m guessing there’s more to explore.
Many of the issues I’ve written about – including discipline, yelling, hitting, manifesting reality, and giving kids a voice of their own, have a spiritual component. These articles touch on treating our children, ourselves and others better and living life with integrity. And as difficult as these things may sometimes be to do, they’re even more difficult if we don’t have a spiritual connection.
Don’t worry, I’m not going to try and sell you on any type of religion or spiritual practice. But I do want to ask:
Do you have spirit in your life?
Notice I didn’t say religion, because religion does not automatically include a living, breathing spirituality. Do you feel a connection to Universe, God, Wakan Tanka (Native American), Buddha or some other form of spiritual practice? Have you ever?
These questions are crucial for two reasons:
(1) Being tapped into spirituality reminds us that there’s something (or someone) bigger than us to help us through our lives. In the mayhem of each day, it’s easy to forget that we’re constantly supported. It’s easy for our sprit to get buried. But spirituality helps center and ground us. And if we acknowledge and trust this support – life flows easier and goals are attained more readily.
Don’t get me wrong, we still have to do our part. A great example is the joke about the drowning man. Have you heard it?
There was an old man sitting on his porch watching the rain fall. Pretty soon the water was coming over the porch and into his house.
The old man was still sitting there when a rescue boat came by and the people on board said, “We have to evacuate, you can’t stay here!” The old man replied, “No, God will save me.” So the boat left.
A little while later, the water was up to the second floor when another rescue boat came. Again, the old man was told to evacuate and hop on board. The old man again replied, “God will save me.” So the boat left.
An hour later the water was up to the roof and a helicopter flew over the old man’s house, dropping him a ladder. The pilot yelled down, “grab on and climb up! I’ll get you out of here safely!” Again the old man refused to leave stating that, “God will save me.” The helicopter flew away to save others.
Soon after, the man drowns and goes to heaven. When he sees God he asks him, “Why didn’t you save me?”
God replied, “You dummy! I tried! I sent you two boats and helicopter — what more do you want?”
I’m sure you’ll agree the point is obvious — we simply must take action.
(2) If we do not live with spirit on a daily basis, who will teach our children to? I’ve known people who are not comfortable with formalized religion, so they forgo cultivating a true spiritual life. This was my problem for a very long time.
Living with spirit does not necessarily mean praying on one’s knees every day, going to church, or sitting in the lotus position (if you can get into it) and chanting. But these are options that work for people.
On a practical level, “living with spirit” is being kind to others, helping others, doing what’s right (not what’s convenient), living with integrity and being honest. It’s being mindful and as centered as possible (deep breaths are helpful with this).
Our children are depending on us to teach them these qualities.
And remember, you are not alone…
4 Replies to “Do You Have Spirituality in Your Life?”
Having a spiritual life is very important. It keeps me grounded and thankful for every blessing I have. You have a great post! Thanks for sharing this one.
Spirituality is a part of our life and we should have faith in this Quote that God helps those who help themselves!
Interesting that I should come to your blog with this topic highlighted. My next blog post is about religion, though it will probably not be as thoughtfully poised as your own.
I like too that you mention Wakan Tanka. Though I am not Native American I find nature spirituality speaks more clearly to my senses–a product of the Transcendentalists, I suppose.
Thank you for being a Daddy blogger. We need to hear positive men’s voices far more than we do.
@ Victoria: Thank you for your comment. It’s interesting how we’re drawn to things sometimes, how the thing that is on our mind presents itself. I look forward to your post on religion.